“I Feel Like I’m Missing A Purpose In My Life” (Podcast)

 

A reader emails me and says that although he has found success in his life and career, something is lacking.

Something is missing. He says that he is lacking a real sense of higher purpose.

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Talking And Fighting: Being Alert To “Stacking The Deck” In Negotiations

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I find great profit in the study of the art of negotiation.  Where two opposing wills collide, it is essential to understand the dynamics of the interaction, so that one may have some chance of achieving the desired outcome.

When one has conducted numerous negotiations in his career, one begins to see patterns emerge.  These same patterns are also evident on the international stage, when the antagonisms of nation-states find uneasy resolution in dialogue.

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How Do I Know When It’s Time To Change My Life? (Podcast)

 

A reader is troubled by where he is at in his life right now.

He wants to make major life changes involving career and residence, but doesn’t know if the time is right.

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In Praise Of Painting

 

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Certain diversions we do because we more or less have to do, such as vigorous exercising, studying languages, sex, travel, and reading.  And these all have their proper place.  But there are times when the collective strain of responsibility, and the stress of duties, demand that entirely new parts of our brain be activated and exercised.  When I say “new” parts of the brain, I mean literally that:  a man can rub raw a particular part of his brain by continually using it, and exhaust himself by repetitive tasks.

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The Foundations Of Motivation

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What is motivation?

From what sources does it originate?  And how can it be cultivated and sharpened?

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How Can I Develop Motivation? (Podcast)

 

This important podcast focuses on motivation.  It’s a critical subject for everyone.

How can a person develop or sustain motivation?  We examine the following:

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“I’m Troubled By Fears Of Death” (Podcast)

 

A reader of FOTM emails me to say that lately he’s been oppressed by fears of death and dying.

It’s worrying him, and he wants to know what the Stoics would have said about it.

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Duress Reveals Latent Talent, And Why Women Need Role Models As Much As Men

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Some positive features in our characters can lie dormant for long periods of time, awaiting the right opportunity to make themselves known.  Even bad men can have positive qualities that manifest themselves only under extreme duress.

I have always thought that pressure reveals the man.  This has been my experience.  And you never really could tell who would rise to the challenge, and who would not.  Appearances in this regard can be very deceiving.

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How Two Guys Started A Knife Manufacturing Business (Podcast)

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In this podcast episode, I interview the co-founder of Delta2Alpha.com, a homegrown Canadian knife manufacturing business started by two regular Canadian guys with vision and guts.  Their story will impress you.

What does it take to succeed in business?

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“How Can I Develop My Aggressive Instinct?” (Podcast)

 

A young wrestler writes and asks how he can cultivate his aggressive spirit.

He has strong willpower, but something could be holding him back in his recent matches. What’s happening? And how can he break through this barrier?

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