We Don’t Know The Struggles That Other People Have (Podcast)

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A recent experience reminded me that we often don’t appreciate the struggles that others have gone through, or the burdens that they may be carrying.  Perspective is one of the first lessons of philosophy, and we should make an effort to get outside our own skin and see things from the perspectives of others.  Being too quick to judge others is a fault that many of us must work to overcome.

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Gaining And Maintaining Confidence (Podcast)

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A reader talks about how he is having issues with keeping his confidence up.

We offer some suggestions that provide practical ways to overcome fears and self-doubt.  Time and experience are the keys here.

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Fear Or Love? The Views Of Cicero And Machiavelli (Podcast)

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Is it better to be feared or loved?  This famous question is more nuanced than people think, and was addressed specifically by Cicero in “On Duties” as well as by Machiavelli in his “Prince” and “Discourses.”  Yet there has been much oversimplification and misunderstanding on this subject.
We also discuss whether Stoicism lends itself to passivity and fatalism.

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Travel Advice For A Young Man. Looking For Sympathy (Podcast)

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In this podcast episode we focus on two different questions.  In the first question, we look at some of the most valuable tips for a young guy in his 20s who has never traveled before.

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How To Avoid Burnout (Along With A Hidden Question) (Podcast)

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The question here is: “How do I avoid burnout?”

But–as is often the case–I sense a hidden question lurking below the surface here that deals with isolation and loneliness.

We discuss some answers.

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Why You Shouldn’t “Stay In Your Lane” (Podcast)

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So-called “experts” and pundits will always try to pigeon-hole you.  They will try to categorize you as they see fit, in order to make themselves feel good.  If you are pursuing your passions or mission, you’ll notice people trying to “put you in your place.”  Some alleged “authority” will try to cut you down.

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“Someone’s Lecturing Me On How To Be A Parent” (Podcast)

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A reader is annoyed that someone is trying to tell him how he should approach and think about his parental responsibilities.

This person is appears to be crossing lines of decorum, but as often happens, I suspect there is more to the story here.

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